And Then There Were None

…that TBC should’ve included another ellipsis or two, huh? Sorry for falling off the earth. I’ve actually spent the last three months traveling the netherworld with Dante, bouncing back and forth between his various circles of Hell. Not fun; repent while you can.

Worst moments happened shortly after my last post and involved several transfusions—two platelets and a sack of blood to be exact—and the screaming deaths of my angry, vindictive hair follicles. My white blood counts did end up dropping to 0 for several weeks and my platelets were down to to 4k. [That is VERY low. Depending on whom you ask, normal levels range between 150k–350k.]

Regarding the transfusions, I’ve learned a lot about typing and the like, so if you’re really desperate and dare to live on the wild side, I got you covered unless you’re O-. If you’re O-, you can give to everyone but only take from other O-‘s. All give, no take—blood is just as unfair as humans!

Fortunately you only need exact blood typing for RBC transfusions; there’s more flexibility with the platelets. Now I bet you’re thinking, “Crap, I don’t even know my blood type, what if I need some sort of transfusion??” Not to fret, you’re not alone. In a super scientific poll I conducted, no one could remember her blood type. Plus the hospital retypes you EVERY SINGLE TIME, so you could forget and forget and forget forever without being given the wrong blood. And nowadays the blood is screened, fried, zapped, and microwaved before it’s allowed in your body, so no need to worry about contracting a *known* disease [ha ha]. Glad I could assuage your sudden concern.

Now, about the hair: I wasn’t allowed to do anything that could potentially cause me to bleed, so razors were out until my platelet count rose. No problem, the hair just falls out, right? Wrong. Mine flat out refused to cooperate. Remember that short haircut I got right before starting? Nope! Not nearly short enough; I should have shaved my head completely, but vanity and the fact that I hadn’t lost it after the other three treatments (with the different drug) clouded my judgment. Apparently it doesn’t happen to everyone—not even the people in BMT [bone marrow transplant, i.e., PAs who should know everything about chemotherapy] knew what I was talking about—but a lot of people going through chemo have horrible dying-hair-follicle reactions. [I had to search online forums. Other patients tend to be so much more helpful than doctors.]

My individual strands are not thick, but cumulatively I have a ton of hair with a ton of tightly-packIMG_1896ed follicles. When the follicles got together for their last-hurrah bender of a death party, the pain became so bad that I couldn’t lean my head against a pillow without extreme discomfort. (Never in a million years could I have dreamed up this consequence.) Of course, my platelet levels stayed down for long enough that I wasn’t able to remove the offending strands with any great speed. Instead, I was forced to wake up every morning with a zillion tiny hairs in my hats and then see a zillion times a zillion still on my head.

IMG_1904The forums suggested a multitude of products to gain relief: 100% pure emu oil, raw African shea butter, a variety of numbing creams. I tried them all and was about to go for the pure Aloe Vera butter until I decided the creams weren’t doing anything other than greasing up my head and hats. Finally I stumbled upon the best idea of all, lint rollers! I was sick of standing by helplessly, so I took those lint rollers in hand and furiously went to town. [I even made “how to” videos to send my sisters, but they cut off midway through–tragic loss.] No idea how many sheets I had to use, but slowly (very¬†slowly), the hair started to disappear from my head and leave super attractive tufts that hadn’t yet died. At my next appointment, my PA tooIMG_2011k one look at my head and started to get mad that I’d so flagrantly disobeyed him until I smugly told him the secret. Needless to say, the entire department thinks I’m totally insane (no argument here). My dad and I eventually took his electric razor to my head, and I proudly strutted around bald for a few weeks. Even though my blood levels continue to fluctuate (3 months out?!), the hair has started to grow back again, still somewhat patchily but thankfully not painfully!

All that background is the lead up to today, the day of my MRI and some supposed answers (which explains why I’m still awake at this hour). Yes, the title of this post is a reference to the famous Agatha Christie murder mystery, but only in title and certainly not in plot. [I read it too long ago, but the premise is one party guest being picked off after another. Also, it seems Dame Agatha was a downright racist as I believe the original title was changed not once, but twice, for insulting two different ethnic groups, something I most definitely do not condone. (At least someone had the sense to change the name somewhere along the way.)] I just like the dramatic feel of the title and am (superficially, no murders planned) referring to it since I have zero days left to employ my ignore and avoid tactics.

I offer a prize to anyone who takes the MRI in my stead! Then we can just scream MIRACLE! and move on with our lives. But seriously, if you read this post before 14:30 CST on 9/29/15, please send some positive vibes my way!!

6 thoughts on “And Then There Were None

  1. Elizabeth Thomas says:

    Sending love and best wishes your way. I made a wish upon the moon and I know everything will be fine. You are so funny. Love your writing. Be at peace today and know that you are loved, dear Sara.

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  2. Erica Baker says:

    Sending healing energy your way. You are such a stud about this whole thing. Your wink picture made me laugh out loud. Stay strong friend. Much love!!!

    Sent from my iPhone


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  3. KC says:

    You are a rock star! Positive jujus are being sent your way from the entire Schanbaum family! XOXOXO PS- you’re such an amazing writer and I’m so impressed by your sense of humor and attitude while undergoing something so intense.

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